In this video Dr Sadaqat Ali speaks about elderly women married with young men. Dr Sadaqat Ali is a renowned addiction psychiatrist and project director of Willing Ways Pakistan.There is another video on the same topic regarding marriage dispute titled as problems in martial relationship and solutions.
People confuse with social taboo of age gape in spousal relation. This confusion is more severe when people observe or experience a couple relations with elderly wife and younger husband. Dr Sadaqat discarded this social taboo with advance biological, social and psychological researches. He advocated that people who couple with elder woman are happier than of similar age. Elderly wife is more emotionally mature and can tackle domestic work efficiently than wife who is younger than husband. She also has good compatibility in understanding, compromise and in sexual relation. Dr Sadaqat Ali has also highlighted the factor of mutual understanding and respect in spousal relation with an age gape. Along with compatibility, understanding is another important factor is successful relationship. Relationship is better when wife is successful e.g. she has wealth, well educated, handsome job etc. Elderly wife is more careful to home and husband due to her maturity and age. Dr Sadaqat Ali indicates, modern researches have refuted the mindset that elderly wife is like a motherly figure. He suggests a very good method to check the spousal relation with age gap that is “test of time”. In this method relation can be tested upon one or two years before marriage, if relationship works well than it can end up being a healthy relation in future.
Dr. Sadaqat Ali , a graduate from Dow Medical College, Karachi is a renowned professional in the field of addiction psychiatry. He has a background of getting trained at “HAZELDEN” and “Vital Smarts”, USA. Dr. Sadaqat Ali is the Project Director of Willing Ways Pakistan, and Sadaqat Clinic (pvt.) Limited. He is a sought after speaker who promotes new scientific solutions for persistent and profound problems. Dr. Sadaqat’s name was included in the international Who’s Who directory of professionals which was the first ever distinction of any Pakistani doctor. The print and electronic media have interviewed him extensively. He appears frequently on national TV channels expressing his views on drug addiction, alcoholism, compulsive gambling, suicide prevention and home runaways. He loves to train people on how to intervene if a family member indulges in self-destructive behaviors. He is running a number of national facilities. Willing ways for outdoor and Sadaqat Clinic for indoor treatment of addiction and alcoholism.
Willing Ways Pakistan is an accredited center of excellence in the field of drug treatment and counseling. We have a history, while we started our operations in 1979 when Pakistan was suddenly hard hit by heroin epidemic. We bravely took the responsibility of making public aware that addiction is very much treatable at any stage and today we stand proud being the trusted leaders in the field of addiction treatment. We have our clientele not only in Pakistan but across the borders as well including UK, USA, Middle East and Europe.
At Willing Ways Pakistan the clients are treated scientifically – the secret of our long lasting standing in the field of addiction and counseling. We keep our team and our program up to date with the latest advancements while helping our clients through extensive, specialized and client centered treatment program. These programs are not only patient focused but an extensive work is done with family through what we call counseling for change. The major purpose of this program is to bring peace and serenity in the lives of those who have been suffering in silence, because of a family member’s addictive behavior. We equip families with a set of vital behaviors to produce results.
The programs are uniquely tailored to meet the needs of the patient which eventually help them reach their ultimate goal of a serene life. Our organization comprises of a highly competent team that holds striking credentials and is not only well trained but also carries extensive know – how. We are a unique team of clinical psychologists, psychiatrists, Addiction counselors and Medical specialists involved in research and education, and who collaborate with each other within the institute to ensure our clients receive the best possible care.
We are leading the battle to conquer the disease in all of its forms through cutting-edge research and innovative approaches. Our mission is to prevent, treat and manage addiction for a world free of this illness and its complications.