In this video Dr Sadaqat Ali speaks about Pick a Partner. Dr Sadaqat Ali is a renowned addiction psychiatrist and project director of Willing Ways Pakistan. There is another video on the same topic titled as Boy friend Girl friend relationship
An arranged marriage is one of oldest tradition across the world but from past 100 years this trend is gradually converted into love marriage. Usually when people realize that old approaches are not good enough, they drop them without adapting to new healthy approaches. For example, parents used to punish their children but this concept is not considered to be healthy or ethical. So, new approach of tough love is replacing the concept of punishment. Similarly in marriages, individuals prefer new approach to “pick a partner” and get to know your partner before marriage.
There are numerous researches on love; it is the opposite of fear. Individuals with fear, insecurities and inferiorities do not qualify for love or they cannot love. People confuse love with infatuation and escalation and that is not love. Love is something that develops on merit and must be based on some justification.
According to Dr Sadaqat Ali “Pick model” of marriage produce better results. This model purposes that every individual has the right to choose his\her partner. Selection of partner is a decision of utmost importance and hold long term affect. Foremost task is to know your partner before marriage. Dr Sadaqat Ali suggests evaluating your partner by acronym of M.A.R.S. “M” stands for “manners”, these are the behaviors/habits of individual. “A” represents degree of “agreement”. “R” indicates rate of successful “relations” in family. Whether “S” stand for “solidarity” means unity among both individuals.
Dr. Sadaqat Ali , a graduate from Dow Medical College, Karachi is a renowned professional in the field of addiction psychiatry. He has a background of getting trained at “HAZELDEN” and “Vital Smarts”, USA. Dr. Sadaqat Ali is the Project Director of Willing Ways Pakistan, and Sadaqat Clinic (pvt.) Limited. He is a sought after speaker who promotes new scientific solutions for persistent and profound problems. Dr. Sadaqat’s name was included in the international Who’s Who directory of professionals which was the first ever distinction of any Pakistani doctor. The print and electronic media have interviewed him extensively. He appears frequently on national TV channels expressing his views on drug addiction, alcoholism, compulsive gambling, suicide prevention and home runaways. He loves to train people on how to intervene if a family member indulges in self-destructive behaviors. He is running a number of national facilities. Willing ways for outdoor and Sadaqat Clinic for indoor treatment of addiction and alcoholism.
Willing Ways Pakistan is an accredited center of excellence in the field of drug treatment and counseling. We have a history, while we started our operations in 1979 when Pakistan was suddenly hard hit by heroin epidemic. We bravely took the responsibility of making public aware that addiction is very much treatable at any stage and today we stand proud being the trusted leaders in the field of addiction treatment. We have our clientele not only in Pakistan but across the borders as well including UK, USA, Middle East and Europe.
At Willing Ways Pakistan the clients are treated scientifically – the secret of our long lasting standing in the field of addiction and counseling. We keep our team and our program up to date with the latest advancements while helping our clients through extensive, specialized and client centered treatment program. These programs are not only patient focused but an extensive work is done with family through what we call counseling for change. The major purpose of this program is to bring peace and serenity in the lives of those who have been suffering in silence, because of a family member’s addictive behavior. We equip families with a set of vital behaviors to produce results.
The programs are uniquely tailored to meet the needs of the patient which eventually help them reach their ultimate goal of a serene life. Our organization comprises of a highly competent team that holds striking credentials and is not only well trained but also carries extensive know – how. We are a unique team of clinical psychologists, psychiatrists, Addiction counselors and Medical specialists involved in research and education, and who collaborate with each other within the institute to ensure our clients receive the best possible care.
We are leading the battle to conquer the disease in all of its forms through cutting-edge research and innovative approaches. Our mission is to prevent, treat and manage addiction for a world free of this illness and its complications.