Talking about the parent child relationship, Dr Sadaqat Ali indicates that from birth till the 7 years of age, these years are called the formative years which have long lasting effects in the life ahead. So it is recommended to start preparing children in these formative years. He indicates that when it comes to disciplining the child both parents should be on the same platform. Talking about the parenting myths, Dr Sadaqat indicates that parent’s think that our child cannot fall prey to drugs; those are some other children who undergo such activities. It is important to understand the every child is prone to it and parents need to talk upfront to the children well before time. Later in the video Dr Sadaqat highlights the application of toughness and tenderness especially in light of parenting. Also he speaks about learning moments and teaching moments, what they are and how to get most out of it.
While answering a question from the online audience about how to motivate a drug addict to get into treatment, Dr Sadaqat replies that a drug addict should never be negotiated upon any terms and condition over their treatment. This does not result fruitful rather what is required at the first instance is to let them face the pains caused by their drug addiction. This motivates them to get treatment for themselves. The family should communicate that they will only help in the treatment not in other matters.
Again answering the query of how to deal with guilt, Dr Sadaqat provides a simple solution of ‘Maafi, Talafi and Azafi’ which means to being sorry at first instance, than provide with the best possible at that every moment and lastly indicating of something as a gesture of compensation for future’ Later in the video Dr Sadaqat Ali talks about cravings and its management.
Dr Sadaqat also talks about what co dependency is and how we need to look into future which helps making our present better. Trial and error and learning from it helps make things better. Taking help from an environment is beneficial too.
In the last part of the video Dr Sadaqat talks about addictive behaviors and how to deal with it accordingly. He in detail explains the difference between habit and addiction. He also catered a very important question of how to tackle with impatience? And how gratitude brings peace within.
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Dr. Sadaqat Ali , a graduate from Dow Medical College, Karachi is a renowned professional in the field of addiction psychiatry. He has a background of getting trained at “HAZELDEN” and “Vital Smarts”, USA. Dr. Sadaqat Ali is the Project Director of Willing Ways Pakistan, and Sadaqat Clinic (pvt.) Limited. He is a sought after speaker who promotes new scientific solutions for persistent and profound problems. Dr. Sadaqat’s name was included in the international Who’s Who directory of professionals which was the first ever distinction of any Pakistani doctor. The print and electronic media have interviewed him extensively. He appears frequently on national TV channels expressing his views on drug addiction, alcoholism, compulsive gambling, suicide prevention and home runaways. He loves to train people on how to intervene if a family member indulges in self-destructive behaviors. He is running a number of national facilities. Willing ways for outdoor and Sadaqat Clinic for indoor treatment of addiction and alcoholism.
Willing Ways Pakistan is an accredited center of excellence in the field of drug treatment and counseling. We have a history, while we started our operations in 1979 when Pakistan was suddenly hard hit by heroin epidemic. We bravely took the responsibility of making public aware that addiction is very much treatable at any stage and today we stand proud being the trusted leaders in the field of addiction treatment. We have our clientele not only in Pakistan but across the borders as well including UK, USA, Middle East and Europe.
At Willing Ways Pakistan the clients are treated scientifically – the secret of our long lasting standing in the field of addiction and counseling. We keep our team and our program up to date with the latest advancements while helping our clients through extensive, specialized and client centered treatment program. These programs are not only patient focused but an extensive work is done with family through what we call counseling for change. The major purpose of this program is to bring peace and serenity in the lives of those who have been suffering in silence, because of a family member’s addictive behavior. We equip families with a set of vital behaviors to produce results.
The programs are uniquely tailored to meet the needs of the patient which eventually help them reach their ultimate goal of a serene life. Our organization comprises of a highly competent team that holds striking credentials and is not only well trained but also carries extensive know – how. We are a unique team of clinical psychologists, psychiatrists, Addiction counselors and Medical specialists involved in research and education, and who collaborate with each other within the institute to ensure our clients receive the best possible care.
We are leading the battle to conquer the disease in all of its forms through cutting-edge research and innovative approaches. Our mission is to prevent, treat and manage addiction for a world free of this illness and its complications.