Nobody is born intelligent though humans have the innate potential to learn through “trial and error” method.
Nobody is inborn intelligent though humans have the innate potential to learn, basic process of learning is by “trial and error” method. People make mistakes and learn from them. Unfortunately, people develop the habit to make mistakes. To avoid mistakes we have to go through the process of learning. This involves the identification of triggers which can be a person, place, situation or our emotions. Exposure to triggers leads the person towards learned behavior, by avoiding such triggers we can avoid unhealthy behaviors. Further process of learning proposes to develop insight by asking “what am I doing right?” and keep doing the right thing. Foremost thing is to create healthy relation with our own self. And in order to deal with others, suitable is to learn “refusal skill” or to say “no” so we can take care of our mental health. Our dealing with others also improves when we learn to understand non verbal language or body language. For example, crossed or folded arms represent defensiveness. But it also essential to validate the people’s body language with what they say.
People can know others before getting involve in the relation with the help of some stages. First stage is to know the person. Second gather information about that person. Observe the practical behavior of that person with others, especially with under privileged people like workers or waiters. Third stage is to know either the person is reliable or not. If he/she criticizes you, it’s an absolute no. Humans have the tendency to judge others, in doing so people must avoid stigmas. Genes play prominent role but we nurture ourselves from the environment. So there is a need to understand both factors objectively and to promote appropriate learning. It will be very helpful if people seek help from professionals or the people who are successful. To enhance your knowledge on various areas of life please click on the following links:
- Dr.Sadaqat Ali talks about Anger Management
- Dr.Sadaqat Ali talks about how to unlearn relationship
- Dr. Sadaqat Ali talks about Behavioral problems.
Dr. Sadaqat Ali , a graduate from Dow Medical College, Karachi is a renowned professional in the field of addiction psychiatry. He has a background of getting trained at “HAZELDEN” and “Vital Smarts”, USA. Dr. Sadaqat Ali is the Project Director of Willing Ways Pakistan, and Sadaqat Clinic (pvt.) Limited. He is a sought after speaker who promotes new scientific solutions for persistent and profound problems. Dr. Sadaqat’s name was included in the international Who’s Who directory of professionals which was the first ever distinction of any Pakistani doctor. The print and electronic media have interviewed him extensively. He appears frequently on national TV channels expressing his views on drug addiction, alcoholism, compulsive gambling, suicide prevention and home runaways. He loves to train people on how to intervene if a family member indulges in self-destructive behaviors. He is running a number of national facilities. Willing ways for outdoor and Sadaqat Clinic for indoor treatment of addiction and alcoholism.
Willing Ways Pakistan is an accredited center of excellence in the field of drug treatment and counseling. We have a history, while we started our operations in 1979 when Pakistan was suddenly hard hit by heroin epidemic. We bravely took the responsibility of making public aware that addiction is very much treatable at any stage and today we stand proud being the trusted leaders in the field of addiction treatment. We have our clientele not only in Pakistan but across the borders as well including UK, USA, Middle East and Europe.
At Willing Ways Pakistan the clients are treated scientifically – the secret of our long lasting standing in the field of addiction and counseling. We keep our team and our program up to date with the latest advancements while helping our clients through extensive, specialized and client centered treatment program. These programs are not only patient focused but an extensive work is done with family through what we call counseling for change. The major purpose of this program is to bring peace and serenity in the lives of those who have been suffering in silence, because of a family member’s addictive behavior. We equip families with a set of vital behaviors to produce results.
The programs are uniquely tailored to meet the needs of the patient which eventually help them reach their ultimate goal of a serene life. Our organization comprises of a highly competent team that holds striking credentials and is not only well trained but also carries extensive know – how. We are a unique team of clinical psychologists, psychiatrists, Addiction counselors and Medical specialists involved in research and education, and who collaborate with each other within the institute to ensure our clients receive the best possible care.
We are leading the battle to conquer the disease in all of its forms through cutting-edge research and innovative approaches. Our mission is to prevent, treat and manage addiction for a world free of this illness and its complications.