This video is made by OPRAH WINFREY NETWORK (OWN) and is hosted by Willing Ways Video Channel . The video is about the parenting role. Dr. Shefali is an international speaker and a well known clinical psychologist. She received her doctorate degree from Columbia University, New York. Her field of expertise includes the parent child relationship while focusing main on the parenting role. She is a much-admired author of the award-winning book “The Conscious Parent”
Willing Ways Pakistan is an accredited organization in Pakistan which is known for years helping the families and their loved one who fall prey to the chronic disease of drug addiction. We at Willing Ways provide the international standard treatment and are known for our results not only in Pakistan but across the borders as well. Our expertise does not end here we are recognized for our ‘counseling for change’ programs. Change that help individuals reach their goals that could not be accomplished because of some defined obstacles. We help remove those obstacles scientifically and hence a miracle happens.
In this video Dr. Shefali Tsabary talks about the True role of a parent. She indicates that there are two main tasks that the parents should stick to when it comes to playing an important role of being a parent. According to her the parents need to commit to moment – to – moment basis which means that one needs to reflect to one’s unfinished self. What does it mean to have an unfinished self? Well it means that reflecting your unresolved issues into your child. For example seeing your child not performing well at studies brings you a thought of what will be his/her future? A same anxiety we feel every moment. The task of an awakened parent at this very special moment is to choose one from the two choices: Do we go inward or we reflect it outward by control and reactivity and hence the task 1. The second task is to control the conditions at your home which means that if you see you child connected to the screen, detach him from it by letting him know that you might be angry but it’s not good for you.
If you are interested in reading more material relevant to personal development please click on the following articles written by Dr. Sadaqat Ali:
- If you think you can do it, it is a realistic goal
- You need to love enough to be tough enough!
- Parenting doesn’t have to be a nightmare: tough love works
- Addiction – Why loved ones wait to seek help?
- Harmful Drinking the Mystery unfolds
- Addiction and its domino effects on our emotions, thoughts and behaviour
Dr. Sadaqat Ali , a graduate from Dow Medical College, Karachi is a renowned professional in the field of addiction psychiatry. He has a background of getting trained at “HAZELDEN” and “Vital Smarts”, USA. Dr. Sadaqat Ali is the Project Director of Willing Ways Pakistan, and Sadaqat Clinic (pvt.) Limited. He is a sought after speaker who promotes new scientific solutions for persistent and profound problems. Dr. Sadaqat’s name was included in the international Who’s Who directory of professionals which was the first ever distinction of any Pakistani doctor. The print and electronic media have interviewed him extensively. He appears frequently on national TV channels expressing his views on drug addiction, alcoholism, compulsive gambling, suicide prevention and home runaways. He loves to train people on how to intervene if a family member indulges in self-destructive behaviors. He is running a number of national facilities. Willing ways for outdoor and Sadaqat Clinic for indoor treatment of addiction and alcoholism
Following are some of Dr. Sadaqat Ali’s TV appearances:
- Dr. Sadaqat Ali talks about how validation of emotions during conversation bridges the gap
- Dr. Sadaqat Ali talks about drug addiction among youth
- Dr. Sadaqat Ali talks about human brain vs animal brain
- Dr. Sadaqat Ali talks about how communication plays a vital role in making intervention a success
- Dr. Sadaqat Ali talks about factors that make marriage a successful relationship
- Dr. Sadaqat Ali talks about stress management
Willing Ways Pakistan is an accredited center of excellence in the field of drug treatment and counseling. We have a history, while we started our operations in 1979 when Pakistan was suddenly hard hit by heroin epidemic. We bravely took the responsibility of making public aware that addiction is very much treatable at any stage and today we stand proud being the trusted leaders in the field of addiction treatment. We have our clientele not only in Pakistan but across the borders as well including UK, USA, Middle East and Europe.
At Willing Ways Pakistan the clients are treated scientifically – the secret of our long lasting standing in the field of addiction and counseling. We keep our team and our program up to date with the latest advancements while helping our clients through extensive, specialized and client centered treatment program. These programs are not only patient focused but an extensive work is done with family through what we call counseling for change. The major purpose of this program is to bring peace and serenity in the lives of those who have been suffering in silence, because of a family member’s addictive behavior. We equip families with a set of vital behaviors to produce results.
The programs are uniquely tailored to meet the needs of the patient which eventually help them reach their ultimate goal of a serene life. Our organization comprises of a highly competent team that holds striking credentials and is not only well trained but also carries extensive know – how. We are a unique team of clinical psychologists, psychiatrists, Addiction counselors and Medical specialists involved in research and education, and who collaborate with each other within the institute to ensure our clients receive the best possible care.
We are leading the battle to conquer the disease in all of its forms through cutting-edge research and innovative approaches. Our mission is to prevent, treat and manage addiction for a world free of this illness and its complications.